Hey 👋I have 3 kids, the agreement (through mediation) was 50% of school holidays, I still manage to achieve this all of the time with the youngest (6yo), the 11yo occasionally refuses to go, and the 14yo completely refuses to visit at all. Their dad lives 70 miles away. He has contact alternate weekends only other than school holidays. What age are your children?
I have 2 they are 8 and 12 we have the same amount of days and times access through the week but they don’t stay overnight during the week he has 1 overnight every other weekend as he doesn’t have beds he has a double sofa bed and they don’t sleep very well on it and that’s what he wants them and only lives 10 mins away at his parents house at the moment.