Well after I thought my husband of 22years leaving me 4 weeks ago was the worst thing ever and I didn’t think I could feel any worse, he yet again manages to rip my world apart. Have just found out that he’s with someone else. I feel so hurt, betrayed and disrespected. It’s slowly dawning on me that over the last 22years he has managed to completely isolate me from my friends and family and now I have never been so alone! This has to be the hardest thing ever. I really don’t know how I can do this. My two children are in bits. I don’t know where to turn!
Unfortunately you can only do it one day at a time, one foot in front of the other. You can turn to us here, but I know it’s not the same. But it is what we all do here, just try and help one another accept and understand what is going on, though alas not change or stop it.
I can understand how you feel. My husband of 23yrs left and is now with someone else. Somedays will be easier than others. But try to stay strong for the children. I also feel very isolated and lonely. You have to take small steps at a time. Joining gingerbread will give you help and support.
I’m new to this forum and first time I’ve posted. No wonder you feel rock bottom. As the others say one day at a time. Keep a diary I found helped and look at the change curve . I hated this saying at the time but it’s true time is a healer but you have td give time the time.
You mention something quite interesting that he’s isolated you from friends and family I’m sorry to sound forward I’ve come out of an emotionally abusive relationship and found lots of help on women’s aid survivors forum made me realise I’d been suffering abuse. Not suggesting that you are was just the mention of isolating you but you might find some solace talking to the other women on there .
Take good care of yourself be kind td yourself you will get there x x x