Hi, my husband of 12 years walked out on me and our 3 children (3,6 and 13) a month ago. We have a house together and currently he is still paying for the majority of the mortgage and bills, I work part time. He has been to see the children fairly regularly. I just feel so overwhelmed by everything, the feeling of such sadness and wanting him back just consumes me. It is never off my mind. I just don’t know what to do, I don’t know where to start, what to do about the house, finances etc. It feels like I am drowning in the stress of it all.
Try to remain calm and remember the things you did that won his heart, maybe you can start doing those things again if you want him back. It looks like either way he’ll take responsibility for the finances. I hops things get better for you.
OH My goodness you poor thing. I dont know how to advise you. It sounds like you could do with talking to someone. I really feel for you. If there is nothing you feel you can do to stop feeling overwhelmed jsut do the first thing that comes to mind that makes you feel good. Then take the next step…. eg could be deep breathing, going outside for a few blocks, etc, planting some flowers. I dont know. I am not an expert. thinking of you.