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    Rich
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    Hi all i’m rich and recently came out of a 1 and a half year relationship which has been toxic the last few weeks.she has been very manipulative and controlling but for a long time i could not see it.they say love is blind.i still love her but also feeling very hurt and confused.i guess its rare for a man to be on the receiving end of such unplesant behaviour😭

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    LynseyBadham
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    My last relationship was like this. I didn’t have children with him but we had children separately. I finished with him in May and then in October he died.

    His ex wife then opened up to me saying how he was with her. It was hard to hear and I will never get the answers I want.

    I hope you will get somewhere with it all.

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    Rich
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    Hi lyndsey.i’m.still very hurt and comfused by her behaviour and i still love her and have feelings for her.she is just acting like she has done nothing wrong and planning her christmas while my life has been turned upside down.was meant to be moving in together but the last few weeks she has been so inconsistent and kept changing her mind.its caused me a lot of stress and worries.i miss her lots and miss her kids and got on well with them.only hours after we seperated 2 weeks ago she was back using online dating and she used a pic of the 2 0f us as a profile pic which hurt me a lot as it was a treasured memory of our last night away😭

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    Brube70
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    Hi

    i have come out of a relationship like this after 15 years together. If you can see the controlling and manipulative behaviour please find the strength to walk away now. You really don’t want to be 5, 10, 15 years down the line until all the strength is sucked out of you.

    I know it’s difficult but only time will help and remember that being treated like that is not signs of a good relationship.

    Feel free to PM me if you need any help and stay strong

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