Recent separation of a 6 year relationship

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    KC93
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    Hi all,

     

    I am currently going through a separation from my partner of nearly 6 years, we have a 8 month old son together. The separation has been coming for months to be honest, we haven’t been in a good place for a while! He is very good at twisting words, not listening and manipulative. I recently found out he has been liking hundreds of pictures on Instagram of half naked woman, which to me is disrespectful to our relationship. Some pictures were when I was in hospital with our newborn baby, after having a traumatic birth and a category 1 emergency c section. These are just some of reasons I left him.

    I am seeking advice from a solicitor, we can’t communicate with each other as it just turns into a massive argument. He won’t agree to anything I’m saying, it’s going to be nightmare I think! Currently we are living together still but in separate beds, I haven’t seen him since Sunday as he’s stayed away. Our house is mortgaged under a joint mortgage and we are not married.

    there’s no point to this post other than to vent really, I am really nervous about becoming a single mum, this is something I never wanted to happen but here we are. Any advice please? X

    #64873 Report

    welshmum
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    Hi ,

     

    im going through the same after 9 years a marriage and a 3 year old. I didn’t see it coming and am really struggling.
    Would be nice to chat!

    R x

    #65064 Report

    ThingsWillGetBetter
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    Hello, just joined this forum and this post jumped out at me immediately. Same as you both, I’m recently separated, I have a 15 month old son, would be great to chat.

    …no idea how to contact you both privately though 🙁

    xx

    #65067 Report

    wonderwoman24
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    Similar situation here too. I have a 4 month old and 1 Yr old (as well as an 11 Yr old 9 Yr old) – feel so lost with the whole situation joined this yesterday in hope I could speak to people in similar situations.

    #65074 Report

    welshmum
    Participant

    Happy to talk! I feel lost too and confused I’m 5 months in now and just don’t understand – we were going to have baby no 2 and all of a sudden it turned to crap !

    #65082 Report

    KC93
    Participant

    Feel free to private message me anytime!! I will always reply and chat! Xxx

    #65125 Report

    GingerbreadHelen
    Keymaster

    Hi@ThingsWillGetBetter,  To private message someone, click on their profile picture, then you’ll see a private message button. Best regards.

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