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    Hi everyone I had posted on here previously regarding putting the father of my child on her birth certificate. Well I ended up giving her my surname which I am very comfortable with as he was very manipulative and has not provided for her in anyway, as he wanted an abortion in the first place. Never once did he attend a hospital appointment and the pregnancy was high risk. Anyway it’s been two weeks since the registration and he has not been in touch he said he did not want his name on the certificate if I did not give her his name. Not sure if I should reach out or just continue to enjoy my daughter. Am just feeling very sad for her to not have a relationship with her Dad at such a young age. Thanks for reading


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    Hi Maria

    Yes it is very sad but on a good note your ex has told you a harsh truth. He has no interest in your child whatsoever. To me it’s better for him to admit this now rather than forge a half-hearted relationship. Forget him and concentrate on yourself and your daughter 😀

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