I’m new to all of this, I’ve recently found out I’m pregnant around 6 weeks so still early on. Am 23 and he’s 21 so still young but ive always wanted a baby and I don’t believe in abortion. We’ve sat down and spoke about it but even after my feelings he wants an abortion. He said he will support me financially if I decide to keep it but wants nothing to do with the baby and if I keep the baby he will end the relationship. I really don’t know what to do for the best 🙁
How do you feel about being a full time single mum? I am but I’m twice your age, and was much more established – home, career etc
It is your body, so your choice. I’ve not regretted my decision for a moment but I can cope having only 5 nights out a year, having no support etc. It isn’t easy. It can be very lonely.
Will your family support you? Are they local? Do you have a decent employer? A career? A secure home? Also, your relationship is probably over, regardless because if you keep the baby, he will leave, and if you choose to terminate, you will resent him.
It has to be your decision. There is no shame in being a single mum or in having a termination. You have time to think carefully. xx