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    solosurvival
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    New to this site, just wondered if anyone else was excited and strong minded to begin with but as the pregnancy has progressed  on they have begun to feel a little daunted and low in mood ? I haven’t had a relationship in years and the pregnancy was not planned but I feel I am ready in my life to have my baby, until recently everything has felt like a dream come true. Could use some support …

    #37698 Report

    Pinkyswift
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    Hi,

    I am in a very similar situation. I left my husband for someone i worked with. We were seeing each other for over 2 years but found out i was pregnant in November. Told him and he chose to walk away as he didn’t want to have kids and we’ve not spoken since! reality kicked when i had my first scan and have been signed off work for depression. I feel so lonely at times even though i have support but i’m doubting myself everyday. Im struggling to look at baby bits. I hope it helps that you are not alone. Here if you want to talk x

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    solosurvival
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    I’m sorry to hear that you are feeling the same way, I’m sure we’ll feel better when we are busy caring for our little ones but this limbo is feeling abit strange. I think we may both need to pick up some pregnancy safe hobbies Siri nag this one and get ourselves out and doing things. Thank you or your reply and I’m here for you to talk to too x

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    Panda4
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    In a similar situation. My partner decided to cut me off completely when I found out I was pregnant. Having ups and downs, but always here if you need to talk x

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    ValerieDee
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    Hi Girls,

    I feel similar…I am 4 month pregnant now and the short relationship I had with the Dad prior the little “accident” really didnt work out. I am from Germany and as I dont have family here,  I should really be going out more with my friends…But I dont. It kind of feels like its a different world now to hang out with people who are not going through the same thing. You are so restricted in doing fun things, that you dont want to spoil the fun for others. Its quite lonely to go through all of these feelings, emotions and changes all by yourself. No wonder some of us getting depressed. It would be great to meet up with some of you, maybe we can be strong together and switch the light back on- after all this should be the most exciting time of our lives..X

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    11Nia11
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    Hi Ladies,

    I have a very similar situation. I already have a daughter who is three and I am a single Mother as it didn’t work out with the baby father as he was quite abusive. It’s been a real struggle being a single Mother but I push through everyday and honestly love my daughter to bits and would never give her up. Since I had her I had to copper coil put in me but after only a year and a half IT FAILED!! So now I’m pregnant again (3 months so far)  with a baby who’s Father I barely know and I have no idea where he stands in wanting this child. So now I’m looking at a future where I will most likely be alone still but this time a single Mother to TWO children. As much as having my first child puts my mind at ease that I know what to expect, it still doesn’t make the situation any easier. I’m scared of being alone and coping completely on my own with two kids. If anyone wants to reach out to me I’m happy to meet 🙂

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    Panda4
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    Happy to mwwt up. Seems like we al

    #37732 Report

    Panda4
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    Happy to meet up. Seems like we are all in a similar situation x

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    James34
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    Im here if anyone needs a chat. Not sure if i can help or make anyone better. But i will try my  best  message me anytime

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    ValerieDee
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    Hi Guys,

     

    shall we just organise it? How about this Sunday in central London?

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    MrDad
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    Where is everyone based if anyone is in west Yorkshire I’d be happy to organise a meet up

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    AnnabellF
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    I’m also pregnant and single. Can be really lonely, I’m from north east England 🙂

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    MonicaCB
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    Anyone in Humberside area?

    Just found out I am pregnant and dad won’t be involved much. I am interested in meeting and talking to people in similar situations in my area.

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    Jayderc
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    I’m in yorkshire recently found out I’m pregnant I’m in the same position the dad left straight away

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    MonicaCB
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    Jayderc we can talk if you want to.

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