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    Mummyjayne2017
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    Good morning to you all,

    been going through sad times recently, me and my ex partner had been together for a year and what can I say other than it was a fairy tail and he was the perfect boyfriend

    I became pregnant and to begin with it was bliss, I’d never been so happy and thought my life was complete. However things changed when he started a new job and seems to be a completely different person. He was a security guard before and now sells time share holidays and it seems to have completely ruined the man I once loved. Anyway I could feel we were drifting apart but hurried my head in the sand, I looked at his phone one night and he had been talking inappropriately with a female colleague and sending photos. I left him immediately, we never lived together but was all in the plan at one point in time.

    Since then he completely let me walk out of his life, I’ve been in hospital a few times due to my sickness during the pregnancy. He reluctantly visited but when it was time for him to leave he couldn’t stop crying and was looking for any reason to stay. Since then I rarely hear from him even though he is always online on whatsapp. I know he is talking with other girls now which i struggle with, the bottom line is I just do not recognise the man he has become and I am now having counselling and taking anti depressants to come to terms with it all. I know I will be ok in the end, it’s juts getting to that point I’m struggling with

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    Sherinam
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    Jayne your ex is a loser!  I had something similar happen to me when I was 5 months pregnant  but I was strong and brought up my little girl on my own . My parents have passed away and my sister lives far . I am on my own working to pay the mortgage and my little girl has been diagnosed with autism. It’s really hard when you have no one In the world to go to. All I can tell you is to be brave and stop taking antidepressants as you become dependent. He is not worth it because you need your energy!

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    Sherinam
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    <p style=”text-align: left;”>Jayne your ex is a loser!  I had something similar happen to me when I was 5 months pregnant  but I was strong and brought up my little girl on my own . My parents have passed away and my sister lives far . I am on my own working to pay the mortgage and my little girl has been diagnosed with autism. It’s really hard when you have no one In the world to go to. All I can tell you is to be brave and stop taking antidepressants as you become dependent. He is not worth it because you need your energy!</p>

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