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    LarisaCa
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    Hi, i am in the situation where i don’t know what to do, feel, think etc. I’m with my partner for almost 2 years, the relationship wasn’t good, no trust from both sides. I barely trust people and couldn’t fully open up to him, after a lot of pressure from him i told him everything. Calling me a liar, hiding things and worse things, now he uses that against me, wants me to cut my family off my life. Inside i know i should just run, but he had a bad and traumatic childhood, and i’m an empathetic person, and want to give him the chance to enjoy his life, and creat his own and better family. I’m pregnant now, we didn’t try on purpose, it happened, also, all my life i heard from doctors that i will not be pregnant or if i will it will be very risky. Now, everything is fine so far. But i’m stuck! I have no idea what to do, how to speak else with him to try to make things better. If it’s worthy even ….

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    schmeckles66
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    My partner of 12 years left me two weeks ago and she did the same tactics, I was not allowed to speak to my family for years and they didn’t even know we had another son.

    I’d avoid this relationship, it’s good you have empathy, it’s a trait we should all have but sometimes it can blind you.

    I would suggest researching narcissism, it might give you some insight if your partner is the same. If he does tick all the boxes you should run a mile as it never gets better.

    No one should be forced to not speak to their own family, if he does not like them he does not have to speak to them and he cannot make those decisions for you.

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