Hi Victoria
Unfortunately I know exactly how you feel although my partner cheated and left me at 9 weeks
Its horrific I know the pain your going through and there are no words to heal but time will. Im now due next week and I’m so excited to have my little girl so it does get easier.
In your case though it sounds like he may be overwhelmed..I’m not excusing his behaviour in any way shape or form but have you suggested counselling? In my case my ex turned abusive and we do not speak with the exception of him sending me horrifically abusive messages.
Is there anything that has happened in your exs life lately that maybe hes not coping with?