I’m new to this site but after another heated conversation with the baby sitter. I guess I just need to vent.
It’s the childrens weekend with their father. I have a 5 yr old and 10 month old. He has them every 2nd and 3rd weekends of the month.
It’s the same every month. He decides to tell me today that he’s working at the weekend and can’t have them. As you can imagine I am so angry. Not only because I have to amend my plans to have a night to myself. But tbh his complete lack of accountability. I too have worked full time; although I am a stay at home mum now. I always had to amend my work schedule to fit around our child.
We have been separated for a yr now after I caught him in bed with another women whilst 8 months pregnant.
I have battled on to the best of my ability. I am exhausted, angry and hurt doesn’t sum up the half of how I feel.
He has to do the bare minimum. What is wrong with sticking to the schedule. He barely gives me money for the kids and only sees the kids on his days. Has anybody else had to deal with a part timer who pretends to be the perfect dad. How do you cope, because I’m starting to lose it. I really feel like giving up?