Anyone else parallel parenting with a covert narcissist emotional abuser? I feel so scared, lost and powerless. And I feel so sorry for my kids, who have now been subjected to 50/50 custody, and have no idea who their father is and what he is capable of. They hate me, call me a psycho and do not communicate with me at all. I don’t feel I can do it on many days. I am exhausted.
I can really relate to what you are going through . I divorced my ex over 5 years ago after 20 years of abuse. My daughters don’t speak to their dad and I allowed him to see my 7 year old son but it’s been relentless emotional abuse still aimed at me. My son absolutely adores his dad and has no clue what he is really about . It has taken me til now to realise what alienation actually is. My son says things to me and my daughters and my parents that his dad says which are all horrible. ..he is told to tell the truth and tell him what I’m doing whether I’m on the phone ..my son will be listening and asking who I’m speaking to and will tell me he doesn’t like me and I’m a bad mum. I’ve felt so trapped with all my feelings for so long that now I am going to try to stop this happening anymore. Xx