Overnight stays for 1yr old with dad

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    Cory43
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    Hello, my ex and I are discussing overnight stays. My child is 1yr old and sees Dad during the day for 2 days per week. I’m worried my baby is too young for overnight stays. What ages have other mums agreed to overnight stays?

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    MamaH
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    Hi. My daughter has always been very clingy with me. She was the same and seen her dad during the day. I decided I’d give her dad the opportunity to take her overnight when she turned 1 ironically and was staying one night every weekend for a year and then once she turned 2 I started sending her one night during the week as well. However, now that my daughter is 3 and in her own bedroom&bed ive decided to take away the overnight stay during the week and just daytime contact. Everyone and their child is different so just go on your gut.

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    warwickshire1
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    Hi Cory43 if dad has been having his child 2 days a week then i think he deserves the opportunity for an overnight stay. Whilst he/she is 1 you could keep it to 1 night and if you are worried you could phone dad the 1st few times to put your mind at ease.

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    Gummibear123
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    Hi.

    I don’t think it should be about ‘deserving ‘ the kids.Our children are not pawns,this is not a game,nor a reward and punishment system.You should do what is convenient for you and your child’s other parent as long as your child is safe and happy in your opinion, as you -being the main carer- will know best.There are no real rules and what may be ‘best’ or ‘advised’ may not work for you at all.

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