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    Lauren_marriott
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    Hey my names Lauren and I have been a single parent for 2 years now and have tried my hardest for my two boys to see their dad and get money for them since he has never payed anything for them since they was born I have tired to get him to see his kids for a day or a weekend but he has no interest in seeing them or giving them money he has a new family now and this is the last thing I wanted to do but I feel like he has to at least pay his way for the kids yet his spending all his money on engagement ring and clothes for him self and maybe even drug what do I do im stuck in a place where no matter what I do nothing will change.

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    dylan_1986
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    Have you got a case open with CMS?

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    Metalmonk70
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    You have your children, and that’s all that really matters….a little help is always appreciated, but most of us men are REALLY selfish & self centered…

    I personally cannot imagine not wanting to spend time with my daughter, it’s inconceivable to me….but many men in all countries are like that, because they learn to be like that from their fathers…..

    I have not seen, nor spoken to my father since 1991…my brother and I were told not to even show up for our grandfathers funeral…we tried anyways (didn’t work out)…..

    Our children are all that really matter….we keep them safe, and do our best to provide for them, as long as they are mostly happy then that’s all there is…..tell them you love them, and thank them every night for being your kids

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    Gummibear123
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    All humans are selfish at heart ,that’s just survival instinct,animal instinct call it what you like.But it comes to a point when you just have to shelve that and….grow up.It’s a rubbish excuse bc women are as selfish as men.But WE…grow up at a certain point.(Well most women anyway,can’t talk for All obviously.)

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    Metalmonk70
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    Gummibear has a good point….I’m just trying to be helpful & supportive as best as I can

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    Gummibear123
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    There’s people on here breaking every stereotype really…mum’s with pink toolbox’s and dad’s braiding kids hair liiiike there’s no rules anymore🤗 just some really amazing people stepping up to the plate and doing what needs to be done!

    Why’s there no Single Parents Day?!?!?!

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    Gummibear123
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    Oh Yikes! There is; 21st March!!!!

    #51289 Report

    Metalmonk70
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    One week to prepare! So many cakes to bake…..hehehe….(I’m not really good at baking), but if we were all neighbors I would try 😁🤙

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