No contact for 3 months then turns up on door step

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    Isnstumummy
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    my ex has had no contact with our 3 year old and 1 year old not even a message for first day at school or first birthday. Then turns up out of the blue with new partner 3 months later asking to see the kids.  

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    Dpsebast
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    That is awful and not fair on you or the children.

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    steve3334
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    hi,

    I have known ppl who re-appeared after years. I think you should now put past behind you, and focus on whats best for your child and encourage child to see dad.

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    Nicw
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    Hmm, it’s a tricky one but I’d be very cautious about allowing him to see the kids. What’s to stop him bailing out again for months on end when the kids have gotten attached again. It’s so tough but you have to protect their little hearts unless he will be a constant.

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