Hi
Is there somebody you both could agree on that could act as a mediator?
If not I know someone who wanted his access to be made more official so paid the court costs for this to be done and never hired a Soliciter. Also in regards to maintenance you can go through child maintenance service s who sort this for you. It’s always best to try and sort between yourself s firstly tho. I found after separating from my ex to begin with it was difficult to sort anything. Emotions are running high, everyone’s adjusting. In time it became easier and calmer. Hope things work out for you 🙂