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    New to this and looking for some advice.

    Split from my now ex around a month ago due to her being unfaithful.

    We have a 2 year old daughter who I want to spend as much time as possible with. We have came to a basic arrangement for days I can see my daughter, the days/nights I have with her benefit the mother rather than me. I work 5 days a week 40+ hours so I realistically only see my daughter for 2 hours for 2 days due to me finishing work picking her up then putting her to bed.

    She spends a Friday night with me and a Saturday morning before I have to take her back. I’ve since asked for every other Saturday to spend with me so it would work, 3 nights one week 4 nights the other. The reply I got was that it wouldn’t be fair on one side of her parents not seeing our daughter. I’m I being unreasonable asking to spend an actual full day with my daughter every other week?

    Other issues I have encountered are the ex partner brought a man back into our house whilst I was away whilst our daughter was in the next room, she had only knew the man around 2 weeks, I know that the ‘new man’ is around the house quite often as when I pick my daughter up there are various empty cans of lager in the  recycling and a strong smell of smoke in the house, they also regularly use cannabis, I’m afraid that the nights my daughter is staying with the mother they may be under the influence and there for unable to provide adequate care for my daughter.

    Any advice would be great.



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    Hi there

    Thanks for posting on our forum.  Please keep a look out for a private message as I will be sending you some signposting.

    Kind regards, Justine

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