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[Smidge123Participant]

Hi New to the forum. I am a mum to 3 children and their dad has left us for another women. The two older children do not wish to see their dad as he is also a heavy drinker and we have since found drugs since he walked out. My youngest daughter age 6t we have tried to shield her from all the stresses in the house. Nowhere hasn’t tried to co tact his youngest child think it about 4 weeks now and she hasn’t really mentioned him either but I’m concerned when he drags himself away from the pub and his other women he will try and come for your daughter. What rights does he have in way of access if he is constantly drunk, can I refuse until he has passed a drugs test??. Oh also forgot to say he came and took the family car off us and in the process threatened my eldest son age 16. I would be greatful of any help and advice pls

[CatalinaParticipant]

That’s a common  situation…if he comes drunk,call the police,they will have a report if he’s on drugs and will be tested.Protect the kids and don’t look back…he won’t change! be tough mom.I know it’s hard cause he’s their father but on drinks and drugs… it’s not him..just my opinion… don’t trust and let him in the past! The kids will understand one day.

[Smidge123Participant]

Yes, I have never known a person change so quickly. I am off to see a solicitor on Wed to find out where I stand over the house/children and divorce. So hopefully things will start becoming a bit more clearer. Ive also got to try and sort out about receiving some money from him.

 

Thanks

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