Newly single after 20 years mum of 5

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    Rach7805
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    My now ex partner walked out on me at Christmas was bad for the last few months with him not coming home being grouchy short tempered

    Anyway he revealed that he started a new relationship just before Christmas

    I can’t stop crying missing him feel I’m letting my children down

    Through the 20 years and 5 children people were telling me he was never really committed still kind of lived like a single man as in military so would stay on camp in week returning most weekends except when on deployment

    Used to give me a minimal amount of money each month for me and the children

    So why do I hurt so much it obviously never meant much to him to move on so quick

     

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    Mariamazzy
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    Hi rach

     

    Im going through the same ill privste mess u xx

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    Rach7805
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    Still crying still cant see things getting better my 3 year old keeps asking for him but hes busy either with work or this new happy relationship

    Splitting up was my fault apparently he didn’t want to hate me but does now !

    I did nothing wrong I raised our children practically alone I’ve never cheated never hone behind his back I miss us so much

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    GirlFriday
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    Hang in there Rach7805, it was 23 years for me & he is vile towards me in any communication we have – I ask my mum every time i emails why he is so horrid seeing as he has got what he wants and moved in with OW and living like a single man pretending me & youngest DD don’t exist – I only have 1 DD still at home so I can only sympathise with the energy you must need for 5 especially if they are young too.. x

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    Rach7805
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    Mine are 18 with additional needs 15,12,10 and 3

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    GirlFriday
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    Wow you are an amazing lady! Mine are almost 15 and not far off 20 😱

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