Hello –
at the start of 2020 my wife said she felt we had become more friends than anything else and that the spark was gone. We both agreed this was since the birth of our daughter. I did all I could going forward to change things – date days and just us time etc – but she brought it up a few more times before niggles started and I left the house in September last year. We were both fine with that.
I offered to let her stay in the house with our daughter and I would find somewhere else. I’ve now just came away for work for a few months – travelling back to see our daughter – and she has said she is thinking of selling me moving back north (120miles or so) as she is no family down here. I understand that but I am now torn between uprooting myself to be closer to my daughter or running the risk of hardly seeing her. I feel sick to the stomach.
How do you cope with being so fat from your own child that you potentially only see then every other month and they can’t see her grandparents etc