Hi
7 years this Cristmas since my ex left for a woman he was having an affair with at work. He actually moved out the weekend before Christmas. My son was 11 then and my daughter 9. Lewis found out from his dad that he’d met someone else, he was very angry and wouldn’t see him for a while. H didn’t have the same problem I think due to the fact that she has autism and didn’t understand what was happening. L started seeing his dad after a couple of months but refused to see his new partner for just over a year. He is 18 now and see his dad when it fits in with his plans. I have never slated their dad in front of them, I think they should be able make their own decisions.
Your children will find out and that will be difficult at first but their loyalty will always be with you. Sadly your at the beginning of a long emotional journey. It took me a year to stand back up but I did and I blossomed.
Hang in there, I have a good support network to help you through. Please feel free to get in touch if you need a chat, I do know what your going through and it absolutely horrible.
be kind to yourself
Dee