Hi everyone I’m new to this ,
im going through a very stressful divorce, I found out my husband was having an affair and lied about it , he still won’t admit it , we have three children, he wants the children 50/50 everything is his way or no way ! I’ve had to leave the family home and move in with my parents as he refused to leave .
He is very controlling and has refused to engage with mediation, I have my children’s interests first and would never ever stop him seeing the children,
he has always worked from job to Job as he can’t keep one , I’ve been a stay at home mum and done everything for everyone,
he had full control over all our money and we have been evicted from 4 houses as he lies about paying bills , he is very irresponsible.
when the children go to school I want to make sure they are in a good stable routine , homework , reading all up to date and I know he won’t do any of this ! He never has , he can’t get out of bed in the morning and i worry on his days they will always be late , I have engaged with mediation to try and work out between us a good routine for the children but he will not have any of it , it’s his way or no way and I’m absolutely lost what to do , has anyone else been in a similar situation?
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