New to separation and feeling torn

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    Sunflower07
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    Hi everyone.
    Firstly I’m sorry that this seems to happen and that life can’t be the simple version it could be.

    This is the 3rd time in twelve months that this has happened and it came from no where. Absolutely no where !
    like all relationships we had disagreements that we moved on from and seemed to just settle them away.
    the reason for these separations are things that have been and gone but now all hitting my husband. I accept that sometimes I’ve not known how to communicate properly and have taken on what he has said but this just doesn’t seem real or what is being said doesn’t match the actions of his words other than the fact he has now left.
    I feel so conflicted because the words he’s using are not clear and black and white.
    he says that he can’t do it anymore and that he has thought about it for so long but yet he has never asked for a divorce but says his feeling have changed.
    he had an affair last year which I never thought he would, it broke me so much but I forgave him ! I know I feel like this isn’t the end I just know it’s really effecting my children, they just want him, I want him but he just doesn’t see it and I feel like I’m going insane.
    I try to explain how the children are not coping how I’m not and I know he’s not but he’s not at home seeing and hearing what i am.
    I just don’t know where to turn for help or advise.
    I’m sorry I have found myself here and sharing this with strangers I just don’t know what to do.

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