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    Katie 2018
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    Hi all.

    I’m 34 and recently separated from my husband of nearly 8 yrs. I’ve 2 young children who are my world! They see their dad every now and again as he’s no longer living with us. It takes some getting used to, living without adult company and we’ve hit a few hurdles, trying to sort benifits has been a nightmare!

     

    It will be nice to have adult conversations again x

     

     

    #15218 Report

    Thesmallfrog
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    Hi Katie,

    I find the lack of company at night hard, i keep being told it’ll get better.

    I’m new on here as well.

    #15221 Report

    Empty
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    Hi and welcome – happy to chat any time. PM me as you please.

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    Debbie356
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    Hi, I’m new to the group too. Been single for 2 years. I have 2 kids and their dad had an affair for over 3 years and then left me for her. He used to work away and I was fine being alone all week but now I feel lonely and anxious about the future. I’ve tried to meet someone new but when I do meet some1 I get really clingy and don’t trust him. I never used to be like that. I don’t really have anyone to talk to except for family. I lost touch with friends. I would love to meet new people in the same position as me and start new friendships.

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    Katie 2018
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    Yes the evening are the worst, weekends especially i find.

     

    Yeah similar thing, my husband keep playing away but always different women?

     

    I’ve not starting trying to meeting anyone, its been so long since i dated im worried, especially now ive got children aswell.

    #15273 Report

    Debbie356
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    Yep evenings are the worst for me too. I work at the weekends when the kids are with their dad so that helps me get through that.

    I think it would have been easier to cope with if he hadn’t of left me for the person he cheated with. If we had just grown apart. He married her a few months ago. We were together for almost 10 years but he was seeing her on and off for about 4  of those. Even though i’m over him I feel broken. I met a lovely guy who was still getting over his break up and was honest and said he was looking to see some1 and see where it goes. And it was going well until my insecurities kicked in.

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