New to forum. Very lonely & will like to make friends & have a conversation
16 January 2020 at 4:16 pm #35661
Hi, I think I’ve cone in really late….
Im a single dad of 2 boys and I can relate to most in this forum, although I thought dads would struggle more as ladies might have more support from other female friends, but maybe I’m wrong….
Ive been divorced a couple of months and I find it hard with loneliness and the boys do require quite a bit of my time…. Hope things have improved for everyone as I’ve cone in late, but I’m finding it hard now….
Be good to have a chat if anyone is happy to?
Phil16 January 2020 at 5:09 pm #35664
Dont give up. You have friends in here. You ok buddy just keep going. I swear to you people in here are so nice and supportive. They understand and are supportive. No one judges which ive found to be amazing. Take care and please,please dont let things get on top of you. We are here.16 January 2020 at 6:45 pm #35678
Hows yourself 🙂 silly question under the circumstances however hope your better since being on here, just joined myself, feels good to be able to escape & talk.16 January 2020 at 7:59 pm #35818
Anyone feeling bored and lonely and you ever want a chat.feel free to Message me. X16 January 2020 at 8:58 pm #35820
Hi Phil Spinks, the loneliness is tough isn’t it? This miserable weather doesn’t help lift the spirits either! Just separated 3 weeks ago today, and finding it feels okay to talk about it to friends once or twice, after that it just feels like I’m going on and on, so try to pretend everything’s normal and fine, which it still definitely isn’t. Happy to chat any time.16 January 2020 at 10:06 pm #35822
Hi am new to gingerbread but totally agree with what’s being said – separated 2 years ago but ex is being difficult about the divorce.
the loneliness is at times unbearable and I do get panicked and wonder if things are going to get better!
It helps reading what other people are saying xx17 January 2020 at 6:01 am #35825
Karen, it’s okay to talk about it it, you need people there to get things off your chest, just talking about it helps…
ive been separated since last February and divorced since October… I get anxious of the loneliness too.
People who are separated especially when kids are involved, you need a good support network.17 January 2020 at 12:05 pm #35843
Thank you Phil, you are right and I will keep talking! Think people want to help but don’t know what to say sometimes.17 January 2020 at 2:54 pm #35852
Just someone being there is sometimes enough….
a hug and company are good places to start 😊
Your doing okay, just make sure you have people you trust around you 😊 x17 January 2020 at 5:29 pm #35857
Hi, separated at the beginning of last year and going through a divorce at the moment.
It does get lonely and sometimes you just want to talk to someone who’s been/going through the same don’t you.
x🙂17 January 2020 at 9:33 pm #35877
I split beginning of last year too – it was February….. Started divorce on April and was divorced by October….
it isn’t nice at all, and there are many going through it too, your not alone even though you may not have friends going through it it to see, but you know someone, somewhere is going through something very similar!
Its really importabt that your able to chat with someone to get it off your chest, sometimes company and a hug is enough.
x17 January 2020 at 11:05 pm #35879
Hi 👋 I have just joined Site hi
ive been on my own – well never on my own lol – for 3 years now
my kids are 11 almost 12
I work full time
I hope I can meet some nice people here xx18 January 2020 at 5:23 am #35884
Hi, nice to meet you…. I thinking everyone on here is nice and friendly…. I have a 6 and 4 year old…. I also work full time as well as have shared custody.
xx18 January 2020 at 8:27 am #35888
Good morning everyone , nice to see activity on this post, reading everyone’s stories together with positive advice …. Shows we are going through such a tough time yet we are resilient.
I wouldn’t have said the word “resilient even few months ago. I was in such a place of darkness but something is changing slowly, just slowly.
I hope we can all continue to support each other & I am happy to chat
Cindy18 January 2020 at 8:54 pm #35908
Thanks it’s good to hear I’m not battling this alone thank you Phil and Cindy and everyone x