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    NinaMol
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    Don’t even know where to start…long story short my partner is cheating on me with a girl 15 years younger than him, they both work at the same place as me…fortunately I am on a different shift because we have a 2 year old son…he leaves me and my son most Fridays and comes back Sunday like nothing happened…I found out that he even had her in the car that we bought together for us as a family…now he’s telling me that he was never happy, not one day since we were together and he would be happier if he never met me…he came home many times tho, saying how he realised that he has all the happiness with me but in a day or two he is like a changed man. Saying how miserable I made him.all the words just hurt so much. And that he chose her over us is just the worst thing ever. or when he acts like nothing happened and he comes home because he tells me I need to go to work or I will have no money.I just feel so incredibly sad and hurt…and I think about my son how are we going to go through this 😔 i have no family here so it’s only the two of us…and my partner promised me that he will never leave or never cheat on me…

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    Janelou39
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    Oh im so sorry to read this some men are such pigs and always try to blame the other person when they are the ones in the wrong. My ex was sleeping around while i was pregnant and i found out when i was 7 months gone. Luckily we didn’t live together he kept asking me to move in with our baby but it was all lies.

    I would just kick him out because the mental abuse is just as bad i can’t even imagine how hard it must be for you and your little one xx

    #32422 Report

    NinaMol
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    Exactly what I think…it’s the words that hurt more than anything else..how come that suddenly he was miserable because of me? And now he put me through such a hard time and my son aswell…

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    Janelou39
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    Exactly… he wants the best of both worlds and Jekyll and Hyde is not nice at all. My ex hasn’t seen or asked about his child since he was 5 weeks old and child matainence are powerless most of the time. You have to think of yourself and your son x

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    NinaMol
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    Sorry to hear that 😔

    it is horrible that one person can tell about love and future forever and ever and hurt you in the most hurtful way

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