hi last night me and my partner had another big arguement resulting in me telling him I want him out by January I want to give him time to get money together ect. We get on 70/80% of the time I dont know if this is a mistake and the thought of us being broke up and him even just texting another girl makes me sad we have a 2.5 year old I just think we would be happier if it was just me and my wee boy I have recently just went back to work and all my partner wants to do is sit up watch tv all night or play the play station even though he know he needs to be up for our toddler for me to go to work early he also works full time so I’m upto 1/2am paranoid that hes still up ect because hes lazy may I add so am i in the house being off work 2 years does something to you! Hes lazy and I’m scared he will go to sleep while watching our toddler who is into everything hes fell asleep watching him before a good 3 times.. I just think hes holding me back I would thrive I think without him but i still love him and I’m scared of being lonely and I think this is all gona be overwhelming also.
Its perfectly normal to be scared of the future. Only you will know whats right for you and for your little one. I guess youve already tried talking to him and i assume hes not going to change his ways? Im scared of the future too for different reasons to your own but ive learnt one thing about the future and that is that i own it. You can own yours too. Best of luck
Thanks so much and yeah I’ve spoke to him umpteen times I just need to work my ass of and think of my wee boy from now on im obese too from being off work for 2 year its all just gone too far my mental health has also went down the pan I just wanna start feeling like me again x
Youll make it honest you will. Xmas is especially hard . We about to have our toughest xmas ever. Ive no idea how we will get through but we will find a way. You will too. Ive found this website to be so helpful so please dont fail to come on. Even for just a moan. We all need one of those now and again. They are also very,very supportive. Take care