New here…. just split with partner and pregnant any advice or support please!

[Peaches1991]

I have waited a long time to become a mother and always waited to meet the right person. Now I find myself 30, pregnant and single. I feel terrible almost suicidal, I feel like everything I’ve ever wanted, a family has been taken away from me now I have to find the courage to do this alone I can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel. I feel like I wish I was never pregnant although I do feel happy about my baby I never imagined it like this. I’ve waited my whole life to do it right and I feel that my ex bf has messed it all up I feel like a failure like no one will ever want me again. Has anyone been through this can you give me some advice or support I really don’t know what to do, I have a good family but still I wanted my own perfect family and I feel I will never have this now plus knowing myself I probably won’t meet a new partner till a long time after my baby is born I feel doomed and abandoned even tho the decision was mutual after an argument.

x

[GingerbreadMichelle]

Hi Peaches

I’m Michelle one of the Moderators here.  I’m sending you a private message to your inbox.

Warm regards

Michelle

[Aurora]

Hi hun

I am also in your situation I’m 30 and was dating a guy for a few months and I’ve just found out I’m  pregnant, I was so happy and we were happy and now he wants nothing to do with me or the child, I also dreamed of the family unit and was contemplating my decision as it’s too soon but sometimes life gives you what you want without realising, it sounds like you have a good support system same as myself honestly it’s the fathers loss, you will be an amazing mum and as long as you and baby are healthy that’s all that matters, you will find someone when the time is right also a man who loves you with love you with your child from your previous relationship also try and talk to your family and friends about this or even professionals but you’ve got this and I hope it all works out.

xx

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