hi all, I’ll start my story and try and keep it brief.
my husband left me 4 years ago saying he was unhappy, with 2 kids. He left me with marital debt and mortgage and told me what CM he’d pay. He moved in with a work colleague 6 months later and had a baby with her a year later then divorced me. Whenever I have tried to sort out finances he’s put a block on it, despite me paying out for a solicitor.
since he left I have never blocked access to our kids ( now 12 and nearly 15) but the last year they have told their dad they are not staying.
last week I got an email at work from him informing his employment was coming to an end and so he would not be paying Cm until if/ when he would get another job. I have worked really hard to get myself and the kids financially straight and now he has withdrawn Cm which I relied on. I am in despair over his cruelty towards me and his complete lack of understanding at how he thinks I will manage with the kids, whilst he is living his new life ….anyone been in this situation who can offer support.