My husband and I have been back and forth to one another the last 2.5 years. (Prior to this we were great majority of the time). Basically I found out he’d been chatting to women online behind my back, that’s what caused us to first split.
I am finding separating very difficult. I considered him my best friend as well as my husband and the only person who truly knows me inside out.
He lives in a shared house. I am raising our children as a single mum. What I find really hard is the fact when me and him aren’t speaking (and haven’t been for the last 2 weeks) he doesn’t communicate with our children and I feel so sad for them. He’s not seen them for almost 6 weeks. Our youngest is almost 8 and this is especially hard on her.
Just feel really isolated and alone at times
Difficult to deal with your own emotions let alone for your children also. I hear you on that one! My mantra at difficult times is that nothing stays the same. Even bad things cant stay bad for ever. There will be chinks of light and even long sunshine stretches thrown in along the way. Have been through a lot – so just wanted to share. Hope it gives you some hope. Sounds like your kids have a great mum Happy to chat if you want…..
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