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    ben_30
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    My wife has asked me to leave the family home and I have moved in with my parents for now. It was my fault a co-worker messaged me and I messaged back, I did realise my mistake and made it clear I was very upset by what I had done and regretted it but it was to late. In the space of a week I have lost my home, wife and my 2 baby boys. I just cannot see a future for myself and my Wife has made it very clear she does not have any intention of letting me work with her and show her I regretted it.

    I know I brought this on myself and should of been stronger, I am truly disgusted in my actions and the impact they have had on my Wife and children. I am numb one moment and then overcome with emotion the next. Any advice on how I can stop begging her to take me back as that is just making it worse? Any advice on how to cope not seeing the kids all the time, I do see them most days but this is limited to a couple of hours before school or after.

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    steve3334
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    hi,

    I think you should take a step back. give her some space. have a separation period. stop asking her to come back, it will just hurt you even more. also depending on some people’s personality, some get a kick out of it if you keep on asking, as it makes them feel very valued. If it’s definitely over, you may want to consider mediation about sorting arrangements to see kids. court action as last resort.

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