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    Kelsey947
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    I’m currently 26 weeks pregnant and I feel as though I’m going though hell and I needed to vent off my frustrations as there driving me insane, I was with my 3 year olds dad for 4 years and I caught him messaging other women on several occasion and eventually I had enough and we split last February we didn’t speak for a month and we started talking again and he was begging and pushing for us to get back together saying he’d realised what he had done and that he was sorry and he wanted his family back so I decided to see how things went and we had been solid and happy since September fast forward to February we found out I was pregnant and we were over the moon it was like it was our new begin we were strong and happy and everything seemed to be falling into place got to our 20 week scan and found out we were having a boy which was the icing on the cake his first son one of each the prefect little family (his words) now I’m 26 weeks and about a week ago he’s suddenly came out with he doesn’t want to be with me anymore he just doesn’t feel the same about me anymore but as far as I thought we were fine he’d never let on about feeling like that or anything we’ve booked holidays for next year and everything so now I’m left feeling devastated and scared like what do I do now it feels like my whole life has just shattered into a million pieces and I’m just having a difficult time processing it all and it doesn’t help that I’m having a terrible pregnancy either 🤦🏼‍♀️ One minute I’m fine and the next I can barely seem to drag myself out of bed I’m trying to convince myself that it’s the hormones that’s making me feel this way as I’m generally quite a strong person 🤦🏼‍♀️

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    Gingey28
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    Hi how are you doing this evening. I seen your post and hope you got some sleep as seen it was after 2am you posted it. Are you feeling any better this evening?

    That sounds tough and along with the pregnancy being tough. Your emotions must be up and down. I hope the pregnancy goes well for you and thats all you can really focus on atm

    My sons father never been involved with him doesnt wanna know never has so know what like being pregnant without being with someone but you must have a lot of mixed feelings atm

    Im trying to be amicable with my recent ex as hate the bad feeling but being all pally makes me feel like im back with him when want to be on own rly Haha me and my stupid choices.

    Message me if you ever need a chat

    #42144 Report

    Dongo
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    Humans are just shite

    Stuff like this enrages me

    what I would do to have my wee family back and this guy just doesnae no what’s good for him.
    Do you have a good support group?
    family and that

    #42168 Report

    Hope you are OK Kelsey947

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    Sara1900
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    I hope your ok. I went through something similar. They say time is a great healer.  I say with time you learn to deal with it. Stay strong x

    #42593 Report

    Kelsey947
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    Hiya guys sorry I haven’t replied been trying to sort my head out but now it’s all come to blows again turns out he’s been having an affair with my “friend” and which is the reason he didn’t want to be with me So all along I’ve been sat crying to her and she’s been running back to him now she’s put it into his head I was cheating on him and all sorts of rubbish which I have never cheated on him and I never would have so yeah basically thinking wtf

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    Sara1900
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    I am so sorry to hear this. I do wonder about people and their morals. Your better off without people like that in your life. Sometimes we have to lose things to gain better. Try not to focus on them too much , I know it’s easier said than done. Stay strong!

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    Effusive
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    I know it’s easier said than done, but keep fighting Kelsey.

    What enrages me the most is there are certain men who get so many chances they don’t know what to do with them all. The fact that you took him back after he was messaging different women to start with should have been the first nail in his coffin.

    It’s us good guys who don’t lie, cheat, drink, smoke and would absolutely die to be back with their wife and daughter who don’t even get a second chance.

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    ChickpeaV
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    Hope you’re feeling better this evening. Stay strong. Xx

    #42608 Report

    Kelsey947
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    I know and I know I deserve better then him and after this I’d never have him back I literally just feel so heart broken I can’t sleep I can’t eat because then I’m sick it’s horrible I just sit here thinking what I did wrong to deserve this

    #42611 Report

    Family Time
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    Kelsey947 I feel your pain , my husband cheated in 2017 I gave him a second chance fast forward he left again this January and moved in with a women who had had one date with she has three daughters and he wants nothing to do with our two girls , it’s heart breaking we give it our all and they do it again more fool them , you can do this , dont even bat another eye at his disrespectful behaviour nothing shocks me anymore , morals are very hard to find and those who have no e eventually end up with nothing and no one , stay strong , always here x

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