Need some friends
1 March 2018 at 5:43 pm #8200
My partner of 7 years walked out on us nearly 2 weeks ago. The relationship wasn’t the best and there was a lot of stress flying around.
I miss him very much and am struggling with the loneliness being alone brings 🙁
I have a 4 year old and 3 month old baby and can feel myself getting a bit depressed and worrying about the future.
So is anyone out there to chat to? I just need some friends to talk to and keep me from feeling so lonely xx1 March 2018 at 5:48 pm #8201
I am always here. I’ve been through everything you can possibly imagine. And I’m honest. Why not contact me? I can’t say I’ll cheer you up, but I can be here.2 March 2018 at 2:54 pm #8233
I am here if you need to talk. I would recommend finding a local gingerbread group in your area and arrange meet ups. It really helped me to talk about things with people going through same things as me.2 March 2018 at 7:37 pm #8257
Thank you xx
I’m up in north Yorkshire xx19 March 2018 at 6:53 pm #8885
I feel the same. I work all day and am home every evening just me and my little boy who is 9. So getting out and seeing friends for adult chats is impossible.
I miss having someone to talk to about our days. 9 year old boys aren’t very interested in chatting 🙄😂19 March 2018 at 6:59 pm #8886
Lindy – post here for chat any time. Find a local Gingerbread group. PM me any time you want. All the best.19 March 2018 at 7:27 pm #8887
I was in a similar position to you 3 years ago and I can honestly say it does get easier.
The lonely nights are the worse but does get better. I find reading helps as it takes me in to a different world and can also get quite tired through reading.
Do you have any friends or family who you can chat too at night or they can visit you?19 March 2018 at 8:24 pm #8889
must admit out of everything, I never imagined the loneliness would be that bad, was almost crippling at times. It’s been me and my daughter (who’s now 6) for 18 months now and I’m glad to say I’ve come out the other side. Just take things at your own pace and try not to dwell on the future too much, it’s bloody daunting I know, never imagined I’d do this on my own I know I can. I also work full time and have no social life! My daughter sees her dad one day over a weekend but more often than not doesn’t want to sleep, so keeping up with friends becomes one hell of a challenge, good thing I only have a small group really. That’s also not a complaint, as my kids comes first every time. If anyone wants to chat I’m more than happy to, either on here or PM. I’m in West Yorkshire xx21 March 2018 at 8:24 pm #8947
hi i can relate to what you guys are saying, I hate the loneliness, a lot of people only associate loneliness with older people, how wrong are they. I have two girls 9 and 12 but most of the times they spend on ipads or face-timing friends, I am left watching TV alone, not quite what i expected my life to be like. I am here to chat to anyone about anything, i hope i do not sound desperate lol22 March 2018 at 6:06 pm #9026
Not sure how to work this or if am replying right?? Need some advice some on how I go about using this website x22 March 2018 at 7:42 pm #9050
Hello I’m ness and I live in Surrey with my nearly nine year old and my dog. I miss adult company in the evenings and weekends. Would love to message if you want to?23 March 2018 at 11:04 pm #9102
I am in a similar situation, got 4 year old and 8 month old x24 March 2018 at 6:20 am #9106
I am actually facing challenges of doing things alone here ever since my partner has gone away. I need someone to talk to especially when I feel alone with my kid.
Wembley24 March 2018 at 8:16 am #9108
I am around most evenings if anyone needs a chat feel free to message.24 March 2018 at 8:46 am #9109
Exact same situation only my babies 7 months ❤️
Here if you need !