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    I need some advice. I was in a long distance realtionship for almost 2 years. Originally it was me who left my home country to live in London UK and we met about 2 weeks before I was going to leave. It was beautiful in the beginning but then he started pressuring me to move back. Him moving to London was never an option and whenever I wanted to talk about a compromise he got really angry and called me selfish. He also has a very different idea of how he wants to live than I do. I couldn’t do it anymore and broke up with him two weeks ago. A few days ago I found out I am pregnant. I really want to keep the baby but I cannot imagine myself moving back to my home country. Its more difficult for me to find a job I like there and I also think it would be great for the child to grow up in London. Obviously I wouldn’t want the child to grow up without a father. But he would probably never move closer to me and if I think about how it was always my fault that he wasn’t happy because I moved away I can’t imagine what bad things he will tell me now and how complicated he will make things for me (he is not flexible at all and never liked compromises). I don’t want us to hate each other or argue all the time, I just want to find something that fits us both. I really don’t know what to do? <!–/data/user/0/–>

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