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    HappyMum41
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    Hi All

    I’m Currently in the process of divorce and hopefully it should be completed soon

    I have decided to go back to my maiden name what I’m wondering is how do you do it legally?

    Is it legal automatically after your divorced or do you have to do it through a deed poll change for it to be legal

    Any help appreciated if anyone has done this x

    #38938 Report

    xxx
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    You are entitled to use your maiden name you do not have to change anything  just as you did not have to do anything when you got married. You are legally entitled to use either surname. All you have to do is update your passport and driving licence so that you have your IDthe way you want it in case you do something using ur maiden name that required ID to match it eg travel bookings or banking. You can start using your maiden name immediately. There is no obligation to use your married name even when married. You don’t have to wait for your divorce to change the name on your ID. I would wait though as I assume your court papers are in your married name so it’s nice to have all your paperwork and ID in matching names just in case there is any hiccup with your proceedings and you suddenly need to sign more stuff or have your ID taken. Just all smoother when everything matches. You can use this time to make a list of everything u will want to change from your utilities to council tax banks loans store cards memberships insurance and the like then when u are ready do it all in one go. If you do have anything mismatched it’s OK as u can show your marriage certificate to show the two names and that’s all you need to show you are entitled to use both. You are equally entitled to use the married name despite being divorced.

    Wish you well with everything.

    #39039 Report

    HappyMum41
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    Thank you so much for the advice

    That all makes sense and that’s what it seemed to be saying online

    I’m going to wait till the divorce is over so it doesn’t cause any problems x

    #39658 Report

    kandyfloss
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    Do you have any kids? I was keen to change my name back so that I had no association with my ex, but a friend pointed out ,that then the kids would have a different name to hers/mine. She simply said “why should I have a different name, I still want my kids to be “associated” with me, and feel “part of me”. Kinda made sense so I am waiting until they are older! It won’t make any difference when they are married!

    #39683 Report

    HappyMum41
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    Hi

    I understand what your saying and I was unsure at first but it’s the right thing for me.My son will always know I’m his mum regardless of my surname and for me personally I have no desire to keep someone’s name I’m not married too.For me it would always tie you to them and I want to be me!

    So each to their own but I don’t need a surname to be someone’s mum

    #39849 Report

    Nadia
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    I’m in the process of coming up with a new name for myself and my daughter. Of course you don’t need to have the same surname to be the parent of your child – but it is understandably something you might want to share, particularly when it comes to them being at school, or when travelling when they are young and having to prove you are their parent! It is possible to change a child’s name as well, but you need the other parent’s permission up to a certain age. I know this may not be relevant to the original poster – but may be for anyone else reading 😉 N

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