My ex keeps asking where my kids sleep at my new girlfriends. Does she have any

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    Iang
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    Please help. My ex keeps asking me about our children’s sleeping arrangements at me and my girlfriends home. Does she have any right to do this?

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    Welshdad
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    I’d say whether she has a right to or not isn’t the point but try to think of it if the situation was reversed.  Wouldn’t you want to know?  Is there any harm in putting her mind to rest?  If she keeps asking and you’ve refused to tell her that may be fueling her concern.

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    Kathymumofone
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    As a mum, she is naturally concerned that the children are ok and you wouldn’t want it any other way.  Refusing to tell her is only going to worry her there is something untoward going on.

    If for example a 9 yo girl is being told to sleep in the same room as an older boy, that clearly is unacceptable and she’s right to ask. But what’s the problem?

    Sleeping on air beds or in a sitting room is ok if they are small.

     

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