Im so confused. 6 week ago me and my ex made an arrangement to have the boys week on week off whilst in lockdown. 3 week into it i got a letter to shield, i checked with their dad that they were isolating he said yes. The boys came back and told me that he had been having workmen in to paint, put a trampoline up a BBQ with these men and moved house. Because of this I made the decision to keep the boys with me, I explained all this to him.
Now my ex is taking me to court for access I have told him everything will go yo normal once things have eased, this is he has them 3 weekends out of 4 and half school holidays. Now he has decided after 7 years he wants joint custody, he has stopped my maintenance, he sends me nasty texts and I have had 3 solicitors letters, 1 promising he will not flount lockdown rules again. I have made sure the boys ring him, facetime him, I have even offered for him to come over and see them in the garden, but he didnt.
He has always tried to control me and our boys, now i have stood up to him its like hes trying to punish me. I have a court letter to attend a hearing in August, I feel sick.