Same situation re ‘friend’, though my husband has moved in with her & told our children they’re a couple. Since being with her his communication with me has gone right downhill & he’s become openly nasty. The girls aren’t happy & he’s convinced I’m feeding them what to say – I’m not, as I want them to retain good relationships with him. Up until now I desperately wanted him back; now I’m not so sure if he can be like this.
The children should come first & he shouldn’t be having her around them yet; way too soon.