My 13 year olds dont want to see their Dad anymore.

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    2TB
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    They say they are not comfortable at his house, he is always in a bad mood and shouting at them. He tries to manipulate them and Is always putting his older siblings  and myself down. They really don’t like his girlfriend.
    He is very controlling and I have recently had to send him a solicitors letter warning him that I will take out a non molestation order on him as he told the police he was going to smash my windows in  and then proceeded to come to my home daily and bang on the door. My kids were witness to this and we all felt very threatened.
    Do they have the right to refuse?

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    Kathymumofone
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    Yes. At 13 and with a documented history of threats, any court will take their views into account.

    Give them the room to change their minds later, but contact your ex and say the children want a break from visiting his house because they feel uncomfortable.

    Would they be happy to meet on neutral territory – go for a pizza maybe – when lockdown allows?  Or do they want a complete break.

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