I am 28, two lovely boys 7 & 4, different dads. I am separated from my narcissistic husband who has brainwashed the other dad against me since we split, despite us getting on before. I have both of them messaging me every day to insult or antagonise me in any way they can. I’ve been through the freedom programme and the recovery toolkit which has helped me know how to deal with it immensely. I don’t get a break because my husband refuses to have my youngest on the same days the eldest goes to his dad’s. Not only that but he is constantly changing the schedule for ‘work’ which I am now putting a stop to after seeing how it is affecting my son’s emotional state, not knowing what days he is going etc. I have an appointment with a solicitor next week to see what my options are. I’m looking for advice if anyone has had the same experience? Also if there are any other single mums/dads in my area to chat to which would help with the loneliness. I have friends and family but noone who has been through it and know how hard it is. I know I’m a great mum, kind person, I know my worth. But having it attacked every day is exhausting.
just joined and can truly understand how you’re feeling and it’s difficult for anyone to understand unless you’re going through it
my ex partner of over 10 years struck up a friendship with and mum at the school my 2 daughters attend over 3 years ago and this individual is very toxic filling my ex partners head with rubbish causing heart ache and chaos not just on me but also my 8 and 6 year old girls
unfortunately my ex can’t see what she’s actually done/doing as this friend has control over my ex
so you’re not alone in seeing the control and influence narcissist people had