My ex has met someone new, i already new and expect it to be woman he cheated with or one of them. I just messaged him asking if he mind me taking kids hol next year. His response was only if i met him first, yes i have new partner very recent and dont intend take him in hol with kids, they not even met yet and dont intend to till know its seroius.
However he wants to take kids away with new girlfriend as she owns caravans. But wants me to.meet her first. Not sure how comfy i feel doing this, happy to go with kids when they meet her, but ex being verbally abusive and feels bit like he saying come look what i replaced you with, as several messages how great she is.