Hello everyone
Hoping someone can help me with advice on possibly the toughest decision I’ll ever have to make!
I moved to a Isle of Man 3 years ago with my wife and two children, I didn’t really want to move but my wife did so I agreed. Unfortunately we separated 6 months ago and this wasn’t my choice. I’ve tried hard to save my marriage and this just isn’t going to happen, which is very sad.
I’ve made a bit of a life for myself here, I have a good job and a few friends and obviously my children are here who I get to see a lot, almost 50% of the time.
I still love my wife and the pain of separation hurts a lot, as does the loneliness of when the children aren’t here.
Despite all of the above I feel like I want to return home and start life again in the UK, I don’t really know why but I do.
This will mean leaving the children behind with their Mum and I’ll have to visit whenever I can. The thought if this makes me very sad as I was in a similar albeit not quite as bad position when I was young, with my Dad.
I really don’t know what to do for the best. Life here is ok but it can be a very lonely place when you’re on your own.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.