mothers address

[PeterDParticipant]

Hi

The mother of our children won’t give me her new address.The kids will never stay there or even visit.

I am debating putting a claim in for child maintenance against her and she thinks not giving me the address will not able to

Any thoughts

P

[KathymumofoneParticipant]

You don’t need to know her address, and she is entitled to withhold it.

If she has child access then you simply do drop-off and pick-up at a coffee shop or library. It doesn’t have to be a problem.

If you make a claim through CMS, they will use information including her full name and date of birth to track her down and can make deductions directly from her salary – if she is employed and on payroll.

[PeterDParticipant]

Hi K

Thanks for that.

I believe I could go to court in order to get her to disclose her address our I maybe be wrong?

P

[PinkyJParticipant]

I think it’s just plain rude not to give an address, if the children are going to stay there then surely it’s in their best interest for you to have the address?!? What if something happens and she needs you to get them?

Mots a proper big bear of mine, and I understand that she is fully entitled to not disclose it but still, she knows where you are with children.

I’m having the same with my estranged husband (that’s what I like to call him atm) he’s staying with a ‘friend’ from work but he’s not having the kids there because I don’t where it is nor do I know said friend…simple

[PinkyJParticipant]

Sorry that turned into a mini rant 🙈 that’s my head this morning

[PeterDParticipant]

Hi PinkJ

I agree it’s very rude.

The reason she won’t give me the address is that she doesn’t want me going there or the area just incase I see her fella. Not that I would do something stupid. Just that it would confirm all the lies and deceit she has afforded me.

Anyway ad I said the kids won’t be going there.

P

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