Meeting the new girlfriend

[Dboness]

hi I have just separated from my ex partner we have a 21 month old daughter together. I have just found out that he has been seeing someone else for 7 weeks and he already wants to introduce our daughter to her, I have replied no its too soon.He is due to pick her up on Saturday but I’m worried that he will still introduce her as I will never find out. As we live in different towns.

[steve3334]

hi,

your child is under 2 years old. I think if he introduces her, the impact will be very minimal. If she is not a dangerous criminal, I don’t see what the issue is really.

[emjones6040]

I had a similar situation with my ex when my son was 2.  He had only been seeing her for 4 weeks and she had pretty much moved in already.  There’s not much you can do about it unfortunately, just hope that they are safe and looked after.  I just asked that I meet her before she meet my son, which I did.

[ocean27]

Hi, Iv been here- at least your ex has suggested you meet her which is good! I said to my ex that when the time comes and either of us meets someone BEFORE introducing our daughter to them we meet them, he agreed. But I find out through one of our court hearings that he is in a new relationship and has been for months and every week she has been there when he’s had our daughter. I just think it’s damn right disrespectful – and I still now don’t see why she has to be involved in our child’s life he only sees her once a week so surely for that once a week she can do her own thing and let him see his daughter!!! They have been together 2 minutes and I no it won’t last so what is he going to do introduce every one he meets to her! But nothing much we can do! When it’s there time to have the children it’s up to them who they have around them aslong as we have no safety concerns we just have to sit back and let them get on with it! I just think disrespectful and shows what character they both are!!!!!! X

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