Maybe this is not the group i need or allowed to join, but after 10 years without seeing my children i do not know how to cope anymore. so i hold out my hand of friendship with those who may understand the pain / help me with advise or just for me to start saying it is difficult .(not easy for me to admit to strangers.)
How painful that must be… I’m sorry to hear that. I think we can all relate to your issue in one way or another. I still find it heartbreaking when I take my son to school following our weekend together knowing that I won’t see him or speak to him for another week.
Have you tried mediation or going to court? I’m assuming that there must be a case of alienation or allegations of abuse? Could you start with supervised contact? I’ve read about kids having to attend contact even against their will for short periods of supervised contact, better than nothing (been there).