newcomer to the forum – I have been a visitor secretly though lol
Even my creeping around this forum searching for help / comfort / answers pretty much sums up where I find myself.
I am a 42 year old male who has 3 children (12 yrs Girl : 9 yrs boy : girl nearly 3 yrs old
my wife left me just after Christmas this year and took the children with her.
In all honesty the relationship was not perfect between us both but in my opinion as all relationships that are long term ones you have to go through difficult periods and the the strength to come through those periods requires true love and more over when children are involved walking away just is un fathomable.
we were together for 13 years (unlucky for some hey lol)
im so so heartbroken and just need some removed help / advice: reassurance that things will get better or what the stages of healing are.
i can not look at her for what she has done and the way she has behaved easing up to it during and since
sorry but but I guess I’m desperate for help