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    Lostmom
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    Hi all

    looking for a shoulder to cry on really.

    Im a single mom of 2 boys 16,20 … recently found out im expecting from a new relationship if i can call it that. My house is on a mortgage and im sole breadwinner, iv got no idea how im going to afford to keep my house on financially, my “partner” is unemployed and shows no signs of getting a job , he has a flat with his stepson .
    hes a nice guy but full of empty promises.
    i just feel stuck and scared . My friends no longer speak to me as im no longer in the “drinking crew” and my familys help is scarce .
    Im just at a loss as to where i am in life now , i dont no if the relationship is here nor there ( he also lives the party lifestyle) no amount of speaking or arguing makes a difference.
    He says he loves me and we are very much a family but i see him on a hop and catch and feel like im not in a relationship with anyone . Hes no support to me . Im scared im going to loose everything:(

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    Julie39
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    Hi I’m Julie here if ya want talk sending ya hugs im sure ya be OK and try not to worry abut things just take one day at a time and try talking to ya partner abut how ya feeling if not maybe go and see a doctor and hopefully they can help and advise ya wat to do I wish ya all the best I hope things get sorted out for ya soon just try and relax wen ya can and enjoy ya pregnancy

     

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    Lostmom
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    Thanks julie

    i do tell him and talk to him and i gdt the same story he will make more of an effort i mean the world to him blah blah but nothing changes

    im ok most days wen im at work then usually by time weekend comes im feeling like i got no purpose and start to worry as iv got time to think about it on my days off

    just making me very anxious about how im going to do this

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    Julie39
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    Ya sound like a ya lovely mum my advice is if ya partner not gong make ya happy I wud consider leaving him and live ya happy life wiz ya soon to be child

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    Julie39
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    And also be a mum to ya two boys to ya gota put ya happiness and ya kids and ya soon to be child’s happiness to first and it seems to me ya not happy in ya relationship wiz ya partner rite now

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