Hi I’m 31 and my wife is 29 (seperated) my wife told me to leave or she would of 6 weeks ago we share 3 young daughters. I’m completely lost without here I’m going through hell. I made mistakes which she has ask me change many times and I never did what a fool!!!
I think I pushed her to her limit with my controling behaviour. I work full time my wife doesnt I’ve always been mindful of finances she as not I’ve always put work first to keep a roof over our heads which is wrong in a way!
She shows no emotion towards me it’s hard when I have the kids every other day at the moment in my mothers house which will change when my furlough ends from work. She said lockdown as not helped our marriage. Btw I know there is no 1 else she really is not that type. Plz anyone with advice I’m trying to be strong but its killing me!!
It sounds like she has made up her mind. I don’t think anyone in their right mind would throw away their marriage, especially with three young children if they hadn’t thought it through fully. You say you’ve made mistakes- now learn from them and don’t make them again with your future partner.
Concentrate on being a good parent and working together to create the best lives for your children. Good luck : )