Hi Butterfly, I split from my son’s dad when my son was 3.5.
Now,seven years later, my son doesn’t remember living with his dad and has completely accepted the new norm of seeing his dad every Sunday. That reliable routine is important.
I know it’s hard at first but stay calm and concentrate on being a happy positive mum . I think if a split has to happen, better it happens early because younger children seem to adapt much better.But once a fortnight isn’t much, can your ex manage once a week instead?